The Jake Files

April 26, 2006

Wednesday’s Child Segment on Channel 12

Filed under: Adoption,Arizona,Family,Fatherhood,General — Amazing Jake @ 8:45 am has this story today:

 In February, The Republic's Wednesday's Child column featured Francisco, an ever-smiling, caring teenager who had no problem explaining what makes him happy.

Sadly, he still awaits a loving adoptive family that can give him the permanence and support he needs in his teenage years and beyond. (snip)

Be sure to watch Francisco's Wednesday's Child segment on Channel 12 at 5 and 11 a.m. today.

The Amazing Mrs. Jake and I adopted our first child 6 years ago, and our daughter has changed our lives in every way.  When we first discussed adoption, I was hesitant because I had those doubts that most people probably do:  Can I love an adopted child the same as one born to us?

The answer is, of course, YES.  Shortly thereafter, Mrs. Jake was pregnant, and we had another daughter the following year.  I can say unreservedly there is NO DIFFERENCE.  We love both our children equally.  They have very different personalities, but they BOTH have aspects of my wife's and my personalities.   

If you've ever thought about adoption, or even if you haven't, tune in to Channel 12 today.  This boy needs a home and a family.


April 4, 2006

Arizona Safe Baby Haven Day

Filed under: Adoption,Arizona,Family,Safe Haven Law — Amazing Jake @ 10:19 am

I came across the following article in the Republic today: 

Today is Safe Baby Haven Day in Arizona to raise awareness about a state law that allows desperate parents to leave their unwanted newborns at designated places without facing criminal charges.

The Safe Haven law was passed in 2001 but advocates say it has been difficult to get the word out. Under Arizona law, an unharmed baby, 72 hours old or younger, can be left at a hospital, fire station, private welfare agency, adoption agency or church.

I'm a pretty strong advocate of this law.  Our older daughter is adopted, and her birth mother was the kind of individual the law is aimed at.  She was young, unmarried, in the country illegally, and unaware of the options available to her.  She did the right thing, before this law was enacted, by taking our daughter to a hospital after giving birth at home.  We give thanks every day that she made that choice.

UPDATE:  2pm

This makes me very sad, and makes me further appreciate the decision that my daughter's birthmother made:

Newborn baby found dead in Phoenix trash bin

Associated Press
Apr. 4, 2006 01:00 PM


The body of a newborn baby girl was found Tuesday morning in a trash bin in west Phoenix, police said.

A person going through trash made the discovery, Detective Tony Morales said. The infant doesn't appear to be a full-term baby.

The discovery came on Baby Safe Haven Day in Arizona, designed to raise awareness about a state law passed five years ago that allows women to leave their unwanted newborns at designated places without facing criminal charges.

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